Bully Fighting 101 Curriculum and Teacher introduction
Hello, my name is Paul Ulrich and I am glad you are interested in teaching students how to fight Bullies. I have developed a free curriculum that you can use at home or in the class room to properly train young people in the art of fighting bullies. I base it on the most authoritative book ever produced - the Bible. I also include modern and local research with regards to legal statues and wrap it up in one easy to use package that you can teach to any age student who is interested in joining the Christian Bully Fighters Association.
Background:
Bullying: Problem: He perceives him and his sister being bullied when they are not.
Solution: Teach him to come get us and let us know when there is a bullying situation. You can couch it as though – he shouldn’t have to worry about bullies, when we are around, let us take care of it so you can concentrate on having fun.
When he comes to get you, then explain to him the situation. Either it is a bullying situation, or it isn’t. Also explain to him the rights that other people have, and how he needs to respect them, not encroach on them.
As his parent, I tell him that in order to fight bullies, he first has to pass Bully Fighting 101. You go to the class, take notes, and then write a report after the class – or take a test. There are two sessions. After you pass with a grade of 70% or higher, you will graduate.
How To begin:
You can start any way you want. I chose to start with a formal letter:
Dear Ezekiel:
I love that you want to fight bullies and I want to help you be a good bully fighter. I think this desire in your heart to fight injustice is given to you by God, and it is a good thing. Did you know that your grandfather was a professional bully-fighter? First as a police officer and then as a federal DEA agent. Its in your blood! I wanted to be a police officer too, and God has also put in my heart that I should protect innocent people. I think I would be fighting bullies for a living if I had had a bully fighting class from my dad when I was your age. So I am offering this to you. Upon graduation, you will receive:
Awards upon completion:
Official Christian Bully Fighter ID badge with 4 detachable corners, name, expiration date, and logo, and motto
Official Christian Bully Fighter class certificate of graduation.
You will be required to keep your certification up to date with periodical training. However, this will ensure you are the best Christian Bully Fighter Ever. Additionally, I am proud to say that you will be the first graduating member of the Christian Bully Fighters Association, which would be quite an achievement.
Much Love,
Paul B. Ulrich
Summary:
My eight year old son was very happy to recieve this letter and hugged me. I count this as quite an achievement as we were beginning to get on each others nerves, with him doing things to fight bullies that was wrong and me getting mad at him for that. Also, I had taken away all his bully fighting paraphenalia and told him he couldn't have it back until he passed the class. He was not happy about that, but I let it go for about a week. once I wrote the curriculum, I presented him with this letter and we proceeded to work on session I for a good two hours straight! he couldn't get enough of this stuff. It really speaks to the heart of who he is. Most boys, you'll agree, have been given a heart of protecting the innocent. It is up to you, Fathers, to encourage that heart and channel it properly so that your son doesn't become a bully. Remember, there is a fine line between bully fighting and vigilantism (becoming a bully yourself).
Lets Start!
I'm making the curriculum available to you for free, along with a certificate and business card. MS Word and Powerpoint formats.
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Showing posts with label Anti Bullying Christian Bully Fighters. Show all posts
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Monday, January 30, 2012
Bully Fighting 101, session I
Handout to Student:
Session I, Student Notes
According to the Bible:
1. Who was the first bully? (5%)
Whom did they bully and how?
(10%) What lesson can a bully fighter learn from this? (15%)
2. Who was the second bully? (5%) Whom did they bully and how? (10%) What lesson can a bully fighter learn from this? (15%)
3. Who was the third bully? (5%)
Whom did they bully and how? (10%)
What lesson(s) can a bully fighter learn from this? (15%)
4. How does a bully fighter know what is right to do?
Hint: Answers can be found in Genesis 3-4.
Session I, Teacher Notes
Answers to Exam 1 – Have student Read Genesis 3-4 and as they go, stop them and find the answers to the questions as stated below:
Answers (Can be found in Genesis 3-4):
1. Satan. He bullied Eve by lying to her. (Lesson #1) The lesson here is that a bully fighter has a very important job to first present the truth to others as clearly and plainly as possible. If you lie to people or misdirect them, then you are intellectually shoving them around.
2. Eve was the second bully, and she bullied Adam. She was doing something wrong, and she encouraged her husband, who was with her, to do it also. (Lesson #2) The lesson to learn here is that a Bully fighter needs to be careful not to encourage other people to sin. Often, children do this to their siblings by suggesting that their brother or sister does something that they know is wrong. A bully fighter would not do this and will warn other children to be on the watch out for it.
3. The third bully was Cain. He bullied Abel by hitting him, eventually killing him. Cain was jealous of Abel because Abel did what God told him to do and Cain chose not too. One lesson here is that a Bully Fighter should not act like Cain. (Lesson #3) A bully fighter can not physically touch people in order to get him to do what he thinks they should do. Cain wanted Abel to stop obeying God so much, because it made him look bad. Remember, no matter what you think other people should do, if you physically hurt them in the process of convincing them to behave, you have become a bully. Bully fighters make sure they don't turn into Cain's. Another lesson is that people who do act like Cain need to be stopped. Everyone, bully fighter or not, has the right and duty to stand up to bullies to protect themselves from being assaulted by bullied. This is called self-defense. (Lesson #4) A bully-fighter will defend himself and encourage others to do the same.
A third lesson is from Genesis 4:6 Then the Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry, and why is your expression downcast? 4:7 Is it not true 17 that if you do what is right, you will be fine? 18 But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching 19 at the door. It desires to dominate you, but you must subdue it.” 20
God is saying that Cain knows what he should do, all he needs to do is what he knows he should be doing. If he chooses not too, then sin will pounce on him like a wild beast and overtake him and possess him like a demon, making him into a bad guy. (Lesson #5) A bully fighter does what is right, so that they do not turn into a bully.
The Three Principles of lesson #5:
4. How does a bully fighter know what is right to do?
1. When a bully fighter is young, his parents tell him what to do. He must do this or he is not a bully fighter
2. When a bully fighter grows up, he will start to read the Bible for himself, and let God directly tell him what to do with things like the 10 Commandments.
3. When a bully fighter becomes a man, he will continue to do what is right by applying the spirit of the laws that he read to every day situations.
Session I, Student Notes
According to the Bible:
1. Who was the first bully? (5%)
Whom did they bully and how?
(10%) What lesson can a bully fighter learn from this? (15%)
2. Who was the second bully? (5%) Whom did they bully and how? (10%) What lesson can a bully fighter learn from this? (15%)
3. Who was the third bully? (5%)
Whom did they bully and how? (10%)
What lesson(s) can a bully fighter learn from this? (15%)
4. How does a bully fighter know what is right to do?
Hint: Answers can be found in Genesis 3-4.
Session I, Teacher Notes
Answers to Exam 1 – Have student Read Genesis 3-4 and as they go, stop them and find the answers to the questions as stated below:
Answers (Can be found in Genesis 3-4):
1. Satan. He bullied Eve by lying to her. (Lesson #1) The lesson here is that a bully fighter has a very important job to first present the truth to others as clearly and plainly as possible. If you lie to people or misdirect them, then you are intellectually shoving them around.
2. Eve was the second bully, and she bullied Adam. She was doing something wrong, and she encouraged her husband, who was with her, to do it also. (Lesson #2) The lesson to learn here is that a Bully fighter needs to be careful not to encourage other people to sin. Often, children do this to their siblings by suggesting that their brother or sister does something that they know is wrong. A bully fighter would not do this and will warn other children to be on the watch out for it.
3. The third bully was Cain. He bullied Abel by hitting him, eventually killing him. Cain was jealous of Abel because Abel did what God told him to do and Cain chose not too. One lesson here is that a Bully Fighter should not act like Cain. (Lesson #3) A bully fighter can not physically touch people in order to get him to do what he thinks they should do. Cain wanted Abel to stop obeying God so much, because it made him look bad. Remember, no matter what you think other people should do, if you physically hurt them in the process of convincing them to behave, you have become a bully. Bully fighters make sure they don't turn into Cain's. Another lesson is that people who do act like Cain need to be stopped. Everyone, bully fighter or not, has the right and duty to stand up to bullies to protect themselves from being assaulted by bullied. This is called self-defense. (Lesson #4) A bully-fighter will defend himself and encourage others to do the same.
A third lesson is from Genesis 4:6 Then the Lord said to Cain, “Why are you angry, and why is your expression downcast? 4:7 Is it not true 17 that if you do what is right, you will be fine? 18 But if you do not do what is right, sin is crouching 19 at the door. It desires to dominate you, but you must subdue it.” 20
God is saying that Cain knows what he should do, all he needs to do is what he knows he should be doing. If he chooses not too, then sin will pounce on him like a wild beast and overtake him and possess him like a demon, making him into a bad guy. (Lesson #5) A bully fighter does what is right, so that they do not turn into a bully.
The Three Principles of lesson #5:
4. How does a bully fighter know what is right to do?
1. When a bully fighter is young, his parents tell him what to do. He must do this or he is not a bully fighter
2. When a bully fighter grows up, he will start to read the Bible for himself, and let God directly tell him what to do with things like the 10 Commandments.
3. When a bully fighter becomes a man, he will continue to do what is right by applying the spirit of the laws that he read to every day situations.
Bully Fighting 101, session II
Session II class reading material:
What is bullying? At first glance, many people might think this behavior is easy to define. Their first image of bullying might be of a physically intimidating boy beating up a smaller classmate. While that can still be considered bullying today, parents need to know that bullying behaviors can be much more complex and varied than that typical stereotype. For example, harmful bullying can also occur quietly and covertly, through gossip or on the Internet, causing emotional damage. Let’s consider a few definitions of bullying.
Although definitions of bullying vary, most agree that an act is defined as bullying when:
The behavior hurts or harms another person physically or emotionally. Bullying can be very overt, such as fighting, hitting or name calling, or it can be covert, such as gossiping or leaving someone out on purpose.
It is intentional, meaning the act is done willfully, knowingly and with deliberation.
The targets have difficulty stopping the behavior directed at them and struggle to defend themselves.
Bullying can be circumstantial or chronic. It might be the result of a situation, such as being the new student at school, or it might be behavior that has been directed at the individual for a long period of time.
Defining “Harassment” Including Harassment based on Disability
The OCR (Office for Civil Rights) and DOJ (Department of Justice) has made the distinction between bullying and harassment in that when the behaviors listed below are directed at a protected class; including:
• race
• color
• national origin
• sex
• disability
• religion
the behavior then becomes “harassment”.
The behaviors include:
Unwelcome conduct such as: Verbal abuse, such as name-calling, epithets, slurs
Graphic or written statements
Threats
Physical assault
Other conduct that may be physically threatening, harmful, or humiliating.
Students have protection under federal laws.
Know the Laws
Many states have laws that address bullying. The content of each law varies considerably.
Texas Bullying/Harassment
Education Code 37.001 requires a districts code of conduct to prohibit bullying, harassment and making hit lists (2001).
Education Code 37.083 (1995) requires districts to adopt a discipline management program that includes the prevention of and education concerning unwanted physical or verbal aggression, sexual harassment and other forms of bullying in school, on school grounds, and in school vehicles.
Education Code 37.083 (1995) allows schools to develop and implement a sexual harassment policy.
Education Code 37.0831 (2007) requires each school district to adopt and implement a dating violence policy. The policy must include a definition of dating violence that includes the intentional use of physical, sexual, verbal or emotional abuse by a person to harm, threaten, intimidate, or control another person in a dating relationship. It also must address safety planning, enforcement of protective orders, school-based alternatives to protective orders, training for staff, counseling and awareness education for students and parents.
Education Code 25.0342 (2005) allows a parent or another person with authority to act on behalf of a student who is a victim of bullying (as defined in the code). The parent or person with authority may request to the board of trustees of a school district or the boards designee the transfer of a victim of bullying to another classroom at the campus, a different campus in the school district.
Education Code 37.123 (1995) prohibits disruptive activities on public or private school property, a Class B misdemeanor, which includes obstructing the passage of persons in a school building, with or without the use or threat of use of violence.
Education Code 37.124 (1995) prohibits the disruption of classes, including preventing or attempting to prevent a student from attending class or a required school activity on or within 500 feet of school property. Violation of this policy is a Class C misdemeanor.
Cyber Bullying
No state policy.
Hazing
Education Code 37.152 (1995) prohibits the act, the encouragement, direction, or aiding, and the reckless permitting of hazing. If any of these lead to serious bodily injury, the offenders are guilty of a Class A misdemeanor. If no serious injury occurs, the offenders are guilty of a Class B misdemeanor. If death results from the hazing, the offenders are guilty of a state jail felony. Also, if one has firsthand knowledge of the planning or occurrence of a hazing incident and fails to report it in writing to the appropriate school official, they are guilty of a Class B misdemeanor.
Education Code 37.153 (1995) prohibits organizations from condoning, encouraging, or having its members participate or assist in hazing activities. Violation of this policy is a misdemeanor offense, punishable with fines between $5,000 and $10,000. If the hazing resulted in personal injury, property damage, or other loss, a fine of at least $5,000 and up to double the amount lost or expense incurred due to injury or loss is to be assessed.
Source: National Association of State Boards of Education
Last Updated: 10/1/2010Session II.
Session II, Student Notes
1. Introduction
2. Definitions
3. What Civil Rights Americans have
4. Legal ways to protect those rights
5. Illegal ways to protect those rights.
2. Definitions
1. Bullying:
1:
2:
2. Innocent:
1.
2.
3. Illegal:
4. Civil Rights:
3. Legal ways to stop bullying
1. If you think someone is being bullied:
2. Is a Unavaliable?,
3. If yes, then:
4. If No, tell the parent or guardian:
5. If you are unable to do the above because you feel physically threatened, then:
6. If you can not get away from the bullies and you still feel threatened, then:
4. Illegal ways to stop bullying.
1. Write down three examples of illegal ways to stop bullying.
Session II Teacher notes
1. Introduction (Read by professor): I want you to know that it is a good desire that God has placed in your heart to protect the innocent and those being bullied. First, you have to understand the difference between right and wrong. Do you know what defines the difference between right and wrong? Yes, it is God, and His word, He is the one that tells us what is right and what is wrong. First, we have to acknowledge God. He is the one who give us the authority to protect the innocent. He decides who is innocent and who is not.
So, we touched on a few key words which we will need to define before we have a meaningful discussion utilizing them.
2. Definitions (Students notebook should look like this when done).
1. Bullying:
1: to treat abusively
2: to affect by means of force or coercion
2. Innocent: 1. free from moral wrong; without sin; pure: innocent children.
2. free from legal or specific wrong; guiltless: innocent of the crime.
3. Illegal: not according to or authorized by law : unlawful, illicit; also: not sanctioned by official rules (as of a game)
4. Civil Rights: the nonpolitical rights of a citizen; especially: the rights of personal liberty guaranteed to United States citizens by the 13th and 14th amendments to the Constitution and by acts of Congress, Amendment 14, the part that relates to bullying states:
Section 1.
All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
3. Legal ways to stop bullying
1. If you think someone is being bullied: ask them if they are being bullied
2. Is a parent or guardian Unavaliable?,
3. If yes, then: take the victim away from the bully to someplace safe.
4. If No, tell the parent or guardian: that you think someone is bullying, and why you think that.
5. If you are unable to do the above because you feel physically threatened, then: Leave and call for help with the bullies.
6. If you can not get away from the bullies and you still feel threatened, then: then defend yourself. The rule of thumb is to use appropriate force, enough to keep yourself from being harmed and in proportion to the force being used against you.
4. Illegal ways to stop bullying.
1. A man comes up to you and picks on your sister, calling her fat. You shoot him with a gun. (This is wrong because you have used improper force. Assuming a parent or guardian of your sister was unavailable, you still should have taken her away from the bully to someplace safe).
2. You and your sisters are on a public play structure. A boy tries to use a section of a play structure that your sister is using. You think he might pick on her because he is brown and you think brown people are mean. You block him access to the play structure. (This is wrong because you have denied someone access to a public place based only upon their race. It is called racism, and also you are being a bully by not letting them into a place they have a right to be in)
3. You see a boy being teased by some older kids who have taken his hat and are taunting him by holding it over his head. You ask him if he is being bullied and he says he is. You ask him to point out his parents and he points to them. The older kids then confront you and block your way to the boy’s parents. The older kids then take your hat and tease you with you while the boy takes his hat and goes away. You let them tease you because you have “saved” the boy by taking his place. (This is wrong because you have become the victim and you have not followed the steps to stop bullying. You should have gone to a parent or guardian as soon as possible.)
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Christian Bully Fighters Association
Hello, the next few posts are dedicated to my son, Ezekiel, the first graduate of the Christian Bully Fighters Assosication. I will be sharing with you all the curriculum I created and used to teach him. And I will be encouraging other fathers (and single mothers) to teach their children to also be Christian Bully Fighters!
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